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爸该说啥？（双语/18禁） | 每日小抄性未成年女儿跟人滚床单，爸该说啥？（双语/18禁） | 每日小抄她挺听话，我跟她谈话总乖乖地听着，但是我总觉得她没听进去。明白我的意思吧，就是说她会点头啊，拍拍我的背，那种时候我看她的表情就知道她心说“老爸，别这么白痴好不好！”我想要是她从别人口中听到这些内容的话，尤其是像你这样善于言谈的人，她一定可以听进去。而且我觉得让她听我打电话给你让你给她建议是件很好玩的事。
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You know that face she makes when you talk to her and you try to be serious or give her some advice about sex, or shape her world view about sex — that face where she is looking at you like you’re retarded ? She s listening. She has to make that face. All children have to make that face. Particularly when their parents talk to them about sex. It doesnt mean she isn’t listening. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t appreciate the effort. It doesnt mean that the things you say won’t sink in, and that she won’t take Dad’s advice. She just has to look like Dad s advice –particularly when it comes to sex- is the last thing she wants. And she s still going to -at least- give you a hearing, whatever the face she s making.
你跟女儿谈话、试图认真地跟她谈谈有关性方面的问题或者给予她这方面的建议、或是塑造她对性的世界观时她所做出的表情—就是你所描述的看着你好像把你当白痴一样的表情，表明她有在听你说的话。她肯定会做出那种表情。每个孩子都会故作那种表情，尤其是家长们跟他们谈性的时候。这并不表明她没在认真听你说话，也不表明她不明白你的良苦用心，更不表明你所说的没有渗透到她的思想进而她会如你所想的那样不听取你的建议。总是要装出付“我才不要听老爸的话（特别是性方面的）呢”的样子才行。不管她做出什么表情，至少她还是乖乖地在那听着了。
Now I m not sure which Lecture for young people who have just become sexually active you want — the If you’re having anal sex, you arent a virgin anymore talk, the You have options beyond vaginal intercourse where you can be fully intimate talk. And then there s the birth control talk, and the disease talk. There s many talks.
我不知道你到底要那种教育啦。到底是那种“性爱入门须知”类的，还是“肛交也算破处”的，还是“做爱不一定要插入”的？抑或是谈谈避孕措施、性病什么的？可谈的很多啦。
But if I had a seventeen-year-old daughter who s just becoming sexually active, this is what I would tell her:
不过要是我有个17岁刚刚开始跟人滚床单的女儿，我会这么跟她说：
We’re gonno march yr arse down to planned parenthood and make a donation and get you some goddamn effective birth control and we’re gonno sit there and we re gonno listen to the nice counselor lady walk you through your options.
“我跟你妈会把你押到青少年避孕中心，捐款给他们，让你TMD好好学学什么叫避孕。我们会坐在那里，好好听听那里的顾问阿姨给你讲讲性。”
And then I would tell her this (despite the looks playing on her face – I would endure those slings and arrows and glares):
然后我会跟她说下面这番话（她做啥鬼脸我都不在乎，横眉冷对千夫指都不怕还怕自己闺女？）
Sex isn’t just vaginal intercourse. Vaginal intercourse is for your young daughter perhaps the riskiestkind of sex because it carries a risk of pregnancy — which can really derail your young life.
性爱不等于阴道性交。直接阴道性交对你这种年轻女孩来说是最危险的一种性爱形式，因为有怀孕的风险，而怀孕会完全改变你的人生轨道。
You can be fully intimate. Don’t regard penetrative sex as the be-all and end-all – as, you know, I m a sexually active adult now, so I must always get fucked in my twat and have cum running down my legs. You can be sexually active and expressive. There are degrees of intimacy and gradations of risk.
你当然可以跟人OOXX，但别以为破处了就每次都要做。千万不要有那种“反正我已经破处了，下面总要东西插着，大腿淌满了精液才是正道”的思想。做爱可以很多种，而且每种形式的风险也各有不同。
I want you to enjoy your sex life. I want you to enjoy your sexual and erotic power. I want you to enjoy your boyfriend. But you need to use birth control. You need to not be a slut. I m not saying that to her-as-a-girl, in a sexist way — I will say the exact same thing to my son come the day. You need to not be a slut. You need to be choosy about your sexual partners because there s not just physical risk when you bring somebody into your bed and into your body, there s emotional risk when you let somebody in like that.
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